Showing posts with label chronic fatigue. Show all posts
Showing posts with label chronic fatigue. Show all posts

Thursday, June 16, 2011

PNA Webinar: Prolactinoma: A Patient's Perspective



The Pituitary Network Association (PNA) is offering a free webinar relating to prolactinomas. Further information about the event and registration details are as follows:

Title: Prolactinoma: A Patient's Perspective

Date: Thursday, June 23, 2011

Time: 12:00 PM – 1:00 PM PDT

Details

Many pituitary patients have had the frustrating, demoralizing experience of suffering physical and mental health issues - that are then dismissed or improperly treated by doctors who are supposed to show compassion and find the answers. Christina O'Neil-Bourne's story is unique, but it is also similar to that of many patients worldwide. Ms. Bourne is not only talented and beautiful (a former Miss Nevada), she will also present a captivating story we all can learn from!

The Webinar Presenter

Christina O'Neil-Bourne, M.M.E.
Music Teacher
PNA Board Member
Pituitary Patient

Christina O'Neil-Bourne holds both a bachelor's and master's degree in Music Education. She teaches general music and band for the Carson City School District. Christina was named Carson City School District Teacher of the Year 2009, and Carson City Rotary Teacher of the Year 2010. She was awarded the President’s Volunteer Service Award by President George W. Bush in 2003 for her efforts.

Christina is a former Miss Nevada and competed in the Miss America Pageant. She volunteers her time for organizations aimed at bettering the lives of others through education.

In 2005, Christina was diagnosed with a pituitary tumor. For nearly two years, she struggled to find a doctor to help her. She found the PNA website and within months was able to get the medical attention she so desperately needed. Thanks to the PNA, she is now able to live an active and healthy life.

Presentation Description

The webinar Prolactinoma: A Patient’s Perspective, will be hosted by Christina O'Neil-Bourne, M.M.E. She will share the story of her struggle with a prolactinoma, and also provide information on how she has coped with the effects of pituitary disease on her physical appearance, mental health, and relationships.

 •  Introduction: Christina O'Neil-Bourne
 •  Personal story
 •  Discussion of physical, mental, and relationship changes
 •  Discussion of how she coped with these changes
 •  Life today
 •  Advice for others

For those who have not registered,
please reserve your free webinar seat now at:
Space is limited.
After registering you will receive a confirmation email containing information about joining the webinar.

System Requirements:
PC-based attendees
Required: Windows® 7, Vista, XP or 2003 Server

Macintosh®-based attendees
Required: Mac OS® X 10.4.11 (Tiger®) or newer

Sources/links
Pituitary Network Association (PNA)

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Pituitary Surgery & Sinus Infection: Why you may want to consult your ENT doctor prior to surgery


The practice of medicine is a thinker’s art, the practice of surgery a plumber’s.” ~ Martin H. Fisher

In my last post, I briefly mentioned some of the complications that may be associated with transsphenoidal surgery (see here for more information). Although not serious, one of the more common concerns involves a sinus infection, which may cause a number of bothersome symptoms such as: facial pressure (in the eyes, nose and cheek area), stuffy nose, headache, fatigue, brain fog and thick nasal discharge. Transsphenoidal means “through the sphenoid sinus” (one of the facial air spaces behind the nose), and so the neurosurgeon essentially inserts his surgical instruments (such as a microscope, endoscope, nasal speculum, and so on) through the nose and sphenoid bone, in order to access and remove the pituitary tumor. This procedure may lead to inflammation of the sinuses, which can ultimately block the nasal passage and inhibit the normal drainage of bacteria. These bacteria multiply and therefore frequently result in a sinus infection.


Treating my sinus infection

Prior to my transsphenoidal surgery this year, I was suitably advised of the risk of sinus infection and told that in such an event I should visit my general practitioner in order to get a prescription for antibiotics. In most cases, where the blockage is caused solely by post-op inflammation, this may be a sufficient means of relieving sinus congestion. I informed my neurosurgeon of the fact that I had already undergone three previous sinus surgeries (the last one only being carried out at the end of 2009) and he assured me that this would not pose any problems. So, when I discovered I had a sinus infection, I readily went to see my GP and completed ten days of Amoxicillin antibiotics, along with almost three boxes of over-the-counter Mucinex (it was only after I’d finished ingesting the second box that I discovered my GP had been remiss in establishing that Mucinex-*D* was the correct form). Unfortunately, I observed no noticeable changes in my symptoms and a follow-up appointment with my neurosurgeon reassured me that due to post-operative inflammation, it would likely take several months for the infection to clear up. My surgeon also recommended sinus rinses (such as the neti pot), and I ardently commenced with the NeilMed sinus rinses on a twice a day basis. For more than a month, I optimistically continued with the rinses, and although some improvement was shown, it seemed minimal.

If you have previously undergone sinus surgery, it may be worthwhile consulting your ENT doctor BEFORE undergoing transsphenoidal surgery.



The ENT doctor

A fellow patient’s wife (and now friend) thoughtfully recommended an Ear, Nose and Throat (ENT) doctor who had experience in cleaning out the material from the sinus cavities following pituitary surgery. I eagerly made an appointment with him and underwent a CT scan, before regrettably discovering that all my previous sinus surgeries had been completely destroyed by my relatively recent transsphenoidal surgery. I was astounded. It seems that as my neurosurgeon entered my sinus cavity, he inadvertently crushed my septum and rearranged the superior turbinates via his speculum. Nasal turbinates are bony prominences that structure the inside of the nose. My neurosurgeon had pushed them outwards, so that they ended up plugging up my sinuses. My ENT doctor therefore explained that I would need a fourth sinus surgery in order to reconstruct all the damage and alleviate my symptoms. Unfortunately, in my case it is likely that I shall need to undergo another transsphenoidal surgery at some point in the future (post-operative blood work suggests there is another microscopic tumor or residual tumor)…. Which will ultimately lead to yet ANOTHER sinus surgery. For now, therefore, my doctor recommended Prednisone steroids and 6 weeks of AMOX-CLAV. I am hoping that I will soon establish when my next pituitary surgery will likely be, so that I can make a suitable decision about when to undergo my next sinus surgery. Hopefully, both my ENT doctor and neurosurgeon can work together in taking care of both the brain and sinus issues associated with my next transsphenoidal surgery. I believe that such a situation should have indeed arisen with my last transsphenoidal surgery, and I am perturbed that my surgeon did not take extra measures to ensure that the structure of my nose facilitated normal function after undergoing such a rigorous procedure.


Summary

This post is not intended to criticize my neurosurgeon. After all, his priorities are to remove the pituitary tumor safely and effectively, without causing any serious long-term damage. He is an excellent surgeon, and I am sufficiently confident in his work and hope that he will carry out my next transsphenoidal surgery. A family member used a clever analogy in order to describe his efforts: “He saved the house from burning in the fire, but broke down the front door in the process!”


Further information



Sinus Infection Information from emedicinehealth

Saturday, October 9, 2010

Prolactinoma and Pituitary Surgery


“Most of my prolactinoma patients suffer from poor health” 
~ Nurse practitioner (undisclosed) from a specialist U.S. pituitary clinic.

The treatment of prolactin-secreting pituitary tumors with dopamine agonist therapies is not always as straightforward as originally presumed. Indeed, many patients with prolactinomas feel unwell, despite the fact that related symptoms such as profound fatigue, cognitive defects and malaise are often excluded from the majority of medical publications and websites. Additionally, a number of prolactinoma patients may be intolerant to drug therapy or are concerned about the long-term safety of pharmacotherapy. In fact, some specialists are even beginning to consider surgery as a feasible first line treatment for some prolactinoma patients.


What is a prolactinoma?

A prolactinoma is a noncancerous or benign pituitary tumor (also called an adenoma) that secretes too much prolactin (also referred to as hyperprolactinemia). Prolactinomas are the most common type of pituitary tumor. In women, common symptoms may include: breast milk production (lactation), irregular or total loss of menstrual periods not related to menopause, infertility, and decreased libido. Since men don’t have the full range of signs or symptoms as women and are often too embarrassed to tell their physician about symptoms such as impotence or enlargement of breast tissue, they are more likely to go undiagnosed until the tumor becomes large with higher prolactin levels. In such cases, symptoms can include headache and visual loss due to mass effect on the optic nerves or optic chiasm. For more detailed information about pituitary tumors in general, please refer to my previous posts here and here.


Traditional treatment for prolactinomas

When I was first diagnosed with a prolactin-secreting tumor in 2000 (via blood work and an MRI), my endocrinologist followed the usual protocol in prescribing pharmacotherapy. Surgery was never discussed as an option, and at that time I knew nothing about pituitary disease. Like many prolactinoma patients, I was initially prescribed the more cost-effective dopamine agonist called Parlodel® (also known as bromocriptine), but due to unbearable side effects, I soon switched to cabergoline (Dostinex®). Although I still suffered with some dizziness and nausea, I believed it in my best interest to continue with this treatment, so that the tumor would shrink in size and my prolactin levels would reduce. This worked reasonably well for several years until my health started to decline drastically, resulting in my inability to continue with everyday tasks, such as work, leisure activities or social events. Although I had discussed my poor quality of life with numerous medical professionals over the years, no one really seemed to put the pieces together - If your endocrinologist tells you that the prolactinoma is not the cause of your incapacitating symptoms, then this must surely be correct… Right?  I was given a number of medications to help with chronic symptoms, such as overwhelming fatigue, post-exertional malaise and headaches, and thus began my frantic and desperate search to find the cause of my poor health situation. My eagerness to retrieve some sort of semblance of normal life led to innumerable highs and lows with various consultations and lab tests from infectious disease specialists, neurologists, sleep experts, ear nose and throat surgeons, and many more. All practically led to a dead end and I became increasingly disillusioned with the ability of the medical profession to help me get back on to the road to better health.

Dopamine agonists can sometimes be ineffective
or not tolerated, and side effects to these drugs may be so severe that patients are unable to function.


It wasn’t until I revisited my primary health issues and did some in-depth research on pituitary disease that I realized how uninformed many medical professionals were about pituitary tumors. I recognized that I wasn’t the only one whose life had been hijacked by the seemingly inconspicuous prolactinoma. For example, several PNA (Pituitary Network Association) forum members responded to my question about microprolactinomas, cabergoline and debilitating fatigue, and stated that they or their family members had suffered from a poor quality of life (QOL) before embarking upon transsphenoidal surgery in order to remove the prolactinoma. Also, dopamine agonists can sometimes be ineffective or not tolerated by patients. In some patients, side effects to these drugs are so severe that they are hardly able to function. Major side effects of such drugs include: nausea, dizziness, headache, mental fogginess, fatigue, abdominal pain and more (see here for more information). Further, cabergoline has been associated with cardiac valve disease in people with Parkinson’s disease (see here and here for further details relating to cabergoline and cardiac valve disease ). It is believed that the smaller doses used for hyperprolactinemia are safer, although it is not really known whether the long-term use of such drugs would cause a similar outcome. As a precaution, some doctors follow patients who require long-term treatment with cabergoline with careful echocardiographic evaluation – But not all do. In my own situation, a Doppler study revealed that I already had ”slight and physiologic insufficiency of the mitral and tricuspid valves”. I may never know for sure whether cabergoline was the cause of my valvular heart disease, but it is a serious concern in the decision of whether or not to continue pharmacotherapy. Women who plan to become pregnant are also advised to discontinue dopamine agonists (due to unknown risk of birth defects). Without appropriate treatment, there is the potential for regrowth of the pituitary mass, leading to further problems, particularly due to mass effect. Contrary to what many medical professionals believe (except for pituitary specialists), the fact that the tumor is no longer visible on MRI due to shrinkage, does not mean that it has gone. If a patient still requires medication to treat elevated prolactin levels then the tumor must still be functioning. Some prolactinoma patients may, therefore, wish to consider surgical resection as an alternative treatment.

Several PNA forum members stated that they or their family members had suffered from a poor quality of life before embarking upon transsphenoidal surgery in order to remove the microprolactinoma.


Pituitary surgery

Due to recent developments in modern technology, pituitary surgery is becoming more straightforward (for microadenomas that are <1 cm in size) and increasingly safer. The surgery itself takes approximately an hour to complete, with the average hospital stay only lasting a day. Surgery is done with the intention of removing the tumor, whilst keeping the normal pituitary gland intact.  Most pituitary tumors can be removed by transsphenoidal resection. This entails going through the sphenoid sinus (one of the facial air spaces behind the nose), as opposed to opening the skull to reach the adenoma (craniotomy). The principal approach is the direct transnasal, which involves making an opening in the back wall of the nose so that the sphenoid sinus can be directly entered. In this case, there is no need for postoperative packing, as the surgeon can use the patient’s belly fat to prevent spinal fluid leakage. It is also feasible to make a cut along the front of the nasal septum (transseptal) or via an incision under the lip/upper gum (sublabial), although these procedures would necessitate postoperative packing and have a longer recovery time than the direct endonasal or endoscopic approach used for transnasal surgery. The success rate for patients with microprolactinoma is extremely high and many patients who decide to undergo pituitary surgery feel a great deal better as a consequence.


Some complications associated with surgery

Although many patients have been shown to do well with pituitary resection, success is dependent upon the amount of experience the surgeon has at carrying out pituitary surgical procedures. A surgeon who is well versed in such matters will generally enable a better likelihood of complete tumor removal and minimal complications thereafter. It is important, however, to take some things into consideration, as like all surgical procedures, this operation carries some risks. Obviously, surgery would be more complicated for some macroadenomas that invade the cavernous sinus. The following list is not exhaustive but it provides some of the main points:

·         Post-operative sinus infection: After undergoing three separate sinus surgeries over the past ten years (for chronic sinusitis), I was perturbed to discover that many patients experience sinus infection after pituitary surgery. Common symptoms include: facial discomfort, stuffy nose, headache, fatigue, brain fog and dark nasal discharge. Although some medical professionals prefer to treat the infection with medications such as prescribed antibiotics and over-the-counter Mucinex-D, not all are in agreement. Antibiotics can be problematic, as they tend to destroy good bacteria along with the bad. In my case, I took Amoxicillin for 10 days, along with almost three whole boxes of Mucinex-D, but my infection hadn’t noticeably improved. My neurosurgeon explained that due to post-operative inflammation, it would likely take several months for the infection to completely clear up. He recommended using the neti pot twice a day in order to keep the area clean. Although I didn’t specifically have a neti pot, I immediately started using the NeilMed sinus rinses, which enabled more pressure and positive results. Although I still have an infection - which has persisted since July - my symptoms are gradually improving. If you really can’t bear the thought of nursing the infection for months on end, you may choose to visit a doctor that specializes in cleaning out the material from the sinus cavities after pituitary surgery.

·         Damage to the pituitary gland: Although normally unanticipated, such a situation is more likely to occur with macroadenomas than with microadenomas. In my case, I was told that damage to the gland was most probably caused by the tumor itself (I assume that long-term growth and shrinkage of the tumor eventually led to the injury). In the event that damage to the anterior (or front portion) of the pituitary has occurred, new hormone replacements may be required, including: growth hormone, cortisol and thyroid hormone. Damage to the posterior (or back part) of the pituitary gland may lead to diabetes insipidus (see below).

·         Diabetes insipidus (DI): Diabetes insipidus occurs when there is damage to the posterior part of the pituitary gland, and as a result the kidneys are no longer able to adequately conserve water. This causes the patient to frequently urinate large volumes, which in turn leads to excessive thirst in order to prevent dehydration. DI can be diagnosed through symptom history and laboratory testing, which may include the water retention test. This test can be quite a lengthy undertaking and can take a day or even longer before any conclusions can be made. So, make sure you take some good reading material with you (but no fluids or food!) My own recent experience involved sitting in a comfortable chair and being requested to produce a urine sample and to undergo lab work every hour. Although many post-operative patients experience DI initially after surgery, it is important to be aware of your symptoms during the whole recovery period. For instance, it wasn’t until about six weeks after surgery that I was diagnosed with DI. In most cases, DI is temporary after pituitary surgery, and can be treated with the oral medication, DDAVP (Desmopressin). Your electrolytes should also be monitored to make sure that you are on the right dose.

·         Electrolyte imbalance: The balance of electrolytes in the human body is necessary for normal function of our cells and organs. Electrolytes include: potassium, chloride, sodium, magnesium and bicarbonate. Common symptoms of electrolyte imbalance include: confusion, nausea and vomiting. Electrolyte imbalance can be diagnosed through blood testing and can be treated with electrolyte replacement.

·        Cerebral spinal fluid (CSF) leak: A CSF leak is an abnormal drainage of the fluid that surrounds the brain and spinal cord. Common signs and symptoms include: a positional headache (that is worse when sitting up but better when laying down), a clear watery liquid or bloody discharge from the nose, or a dripping down the back of the throat that leaves a salty taste in the mouth. Depending on the severity of the CSF, it can be resolved with as little as bed rest and a substantial intake of fluids, or as much as repeat surgery. To prevent CSF leakage, a small piece of fat (about 2 cm) is taken from the abdomen and packed into the pituitary cavity.

·         Meningitis: This is a rare complication from pituitary surgery. Common symptoms include: high fever, severe headache, stiff neck, nausea or vomiting, flu-like feeling, confusion and difficulty concentrating. Meningitis is usually a result of CSF leak and is normally treated with antibiotics.

·         Visual loss: The optic chiasm may be damaged during surgery. Although rare, post-operative bleeding may flow into the area around the pituitary gland or into any tumor tissue that remains. This can put pressure on the optic nerves and cause vision loss. In such circumstances, an additional procedure may be needed to remove any blood clots.

·         Stroke: There is a very small chance of damage being caused to the carotid arteries that are located close to the pituitary gland, in an area known as the cavernous sinus. This can cause and interruption of blood supply to the brain, potentially leading to stroke, severe blood loss or even death. Such a situation is, however, highly unlikely when surgery is performed by an experienced surgeon.

·         Tumor regrowth: Even after having surgery, there remains a chance that post-operative blood work may reveal another (microscopic) tumor or residual tumor that the neurosurgeon was unable to see during the procedure. In such cases, the patient may be required to receive further treatments, such as pharmacotherapy, an additional pituitary surgery or radiation therapy. For instance, my post-operative PRL level was above 10 mg/ml and it is continually rising, so with my next MRI we shall be looking out for another adenoma. I have become intolerant to medical therapy, so will inevitably have to undergo a second transsphenoidal surgery at some point in time.


Final comments


While most medical professionals continue to prescribe dopamine agonists for the treatment of prolactinomas, surgery may be a good option for some patients. The list of complications associated with pituitary surgery may seem daunting, but many of these are rare occurrences. As pituitary surgery has evolved technologically over the past few years, in the hands of a specialist it is a minimally invasive and low-risk procedure. Total surgical removal of the tumor results in complete “cure” (or what many doctors prefer to call remission), although this cannot be guaranteed. Success after surgery is based on an individual case, and it is important that you do your own research. Please talk to your pituitary endocrinologist and neurosurgeon for information about the likely outcome of you having surgery.


Tuesday, June 15, 2010

A Glossary of Selected Medical Terms (a work in progress)


Like any other profession, the medical industry uses specific industry language that can sometimes be tricky to comprehend. Doctors and researchers use many technical terms and Latin nomenclature in order to describe specific diseases, bacteria, human anatomy, pharmaceutical drugs and so forth. I thought about explaining such terms at the end of each blog post, but after much consideration, I decided that it would be more beneficial for a Glossary to be added for better ease of reference. Everyone has to deal with some sort of medical issue at some point in their lives and so it is crucial that we all have access to information that may help us find our way to better health and recovery. As stated throughout this Weblog, I am not a medical or health professional, and the data provided is for informational purposes only and are not intended to replace medical information provided by licensed healthcare professionals. It is important, therefore, that you consult your own doctor for your own individual care.


Using the Glossary

(a) Each term defined in this Glossary is shown alphabetically in bold font.
(b) Terms may be single words or longer phrases and may include domain-specific jargon or abbreviations.
(c) Within the text of definitions, supplementary terms defined elsewhere in the Glossary are shown in italics for ease of cross-referencing.
(d) Within the text of each new blog post, the terms available for access in this Glossary will be shown in bold font.
(e) Glossary entries are provided primarily in US English although UK English is also included where appropriate.


Scope of Glossary

Please note that this Glossary does not provide an all-inclusive list, as the terminology specific to the discipline of medicine appears to be never-ending. Further, this Glossary is a work in progress and further entries may be added with new blog posts. The goal of this Glossary is to provide a quick and easy reference to the meanings of common terms used in the field of medicine. For additional information about the terms defined, it is suggested that you refer to external sources such as those listed in the Bibliography below.

Documents and publications of relevant sources used for the formation of this Glossary are included in the Bibliography. This Glossary is a work in progress and any errors found are my own (I am not a medical professional and I do not have an editor to check my work).

I hope you will find this Glossary useful! 


Bibliography

Parts of this Glossary were brought together with the help of several resources. Valued references include:

Bottom Line. 2006. The World’s Greatest Treasury of Health Secrets. Bottom Line Publications.

Pituitary Network Association. 2007 (4th ed.). It Is All In Your Head! The Pituitary Patient Resource Guide.


Friday, January 29, 2010

Invisible illness: Those who judge



There are many chronic illnesses that appear to be unobvious to those looking from the outside, and some individuals are under the impression that if you don’t look sick then you certainly can’t be sick – Surely your problems are psychological and must be caused by depression, hypercondria or even worse… just plain laziness! This is especially true if one is unable to back up one’s lengthy symptom list with some tangible lab evidence. Contrary to what most people believe, it is sometimes tricky to obtain a definitive diagnoses for some circumstances. Indeed, I once experienced a situation where doctors couldn’t agree on whether or not I actually had cancer. On another instance, they were unable to elucidate why I went into serious adrenal dysfunction. Many years later, these episodes (as well as countless others) have merely retreated into the abyss of my meager memory, with no apparent clarification or remedy in sight. Doctors simply don’t understand what the cause could be, and the medical profession clearly remains inept at observing the body holistically. Meanwhile, I continue to take my roller coaster ride of ups and downs, reflecting times of optimism that is ultimately followed by defeat and disillusionment, and the lingering question of whether I will ever feel “normal” again.
Invisible ailments include such illnesses as Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (CFS/ME), some pituitary diseases, autoimmune disorders, heart disease and even cancer, although this list is far from exhaustive, and I’m sure that many of you will be happy to tell me about your particular situation or ailment. I’m also in no doubt that a number of you will have experienced some negativity or perhaps dismissiveness from some individuals (whether doctors, family or friends), which will undoubtedly cause much frustration and anger. This is a natural human response to situations that seem to be out of our control. Indeed, if we didn’t feel irritated or upset with such a set of circumstances then there would be something wrong! It is my experience that many people who do not have an invisible illness will not fully understand, no matter what or how many times you try to explain it to them. In fact there’s a useful saying in Israel that sums this up: “Let a man shave his own beard”. Some guides have, however, been written on how to communicate such information effectively (I am unable to comment on the efficacy of such material) and you might want to experiment with it to see if it helps (see IDA link for further information).
I try to manage my reaction to such disapproving people by telling myself that I know who I am as a person, and I understand my physical limitations. People may decide for themselves that I look sufficiently well to host the perfect dinner party, but the reality is that if I do too much then “payback is a вiŧ©ħ! or in more refined vocabulary, I will experience what is generally referred to as “post-exertional malaise”. I have noticed through the years, that many people appear to be on what I term as the “conveyer belt of life” and, as a consequence, often end up being stuck in a rut. I’m certainly not saying that I’m glad to have this awful sickness or indeed would wish it upon anyone else (well, maybe for a week or so, so that they could truly experience and empathize with it!) However, I will say that it has really enabled me to grow in such a way that would not have been possible otherwise. In my prior life (i.e., before the illness), I was a workaholic and was always worried about what everyone else thought about me. As a consequence, I almost drove myself around the bend, continually trying to please others, and as a result, I was repeatedly abused and unappreciated. As my health progressively declined (if that makes sense), I realized enough was enough.
As a chronically ill patient, your priority is to take very good care of yourself, and if someone doesn’t understand that then they are really not worth bothering with – Especially if they are inclined to harmfully judge you. Nowadays, I try to limit my exposure to damaging relationships. I literally wrote out a list of names of those people I had contact with on a regular basis. (This list included face-to-face contacts, phone, calls, emails, text messages, and anything else). I then placed a tick mark next to those whose relationship I had enjoyed, and a cross mark adjacent to those who made me feel bad about myself. I then proceeded to eliminate the harmful ones from my life, and to spend more time with those whose company I took pleasure in. This has worked well for the most part – Obviously, it is not always possible to remove them all, due to certain responsibilities and so forth. Some family and work relationships could certainly pose problems, as it’s not always viable to just ignore them. However, it can be better to even avoid family ties if they become detrimental to your well-being.
On occasions when forced into a negative setting, try to take stock and “step out of the situation”. I know that sounds rather whimsical, but if you can, try to see the bigger picture and to acknowledge THEIR limitations, NOT yours. You are in charge of your own feelings. Nobody has the right to make you feel any particular way – Only you have that right. With a chronic illness you have enough to contend with. Let them just “get on with it”.
I hope this post will be of some help and consolation during difficult times. Just remember, if you can stay relatively sane through a diabolical illness, then that makes you a particularly strong individual indeed… Personally, I think that having an invisible illness is the “mother test of life”.
Resources:
The Invisible Disabilities Advocate (IDA) - http://www.invisibledisabilities.org/
Invisible Illness - What You Can't See Does Hurt Her - http://www.socialworktoday.com/archive/novdec2007p18.shtml